“sorry”

teawrites
2 min readJul 30, 2024

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Have you ever found yourself apologizing for things that weren’t your fault, and wondered how this simple word holds the power to mend or break relationships?

"Sorry." This is not just a word. It’s a powerful expression of humility and accountability. Some people apologize frequently, even when they aren’t at fault, because they genuinely feel remorseful and responsible. This habitual apology might seem trivial, something we can utter casually at any time, yet it carries profound significance and purpose in our lives.

There are individuals who apologize so often that they come to believe everything that happens is their responsibility. Over time, they become this way due to the selfish people around them, absorbing the blame for things beyond their control. If it were possible, they might even apologize for every breath they take, internalizing a sense of guilt that isn’t theirs to bear.

The essence of "sorry" extends beyond mere words. It’s often said that we don’t need to apologize or say "thank you" in friendships, implying that our bonds should transcend the need for verbal acknowledgment.

However, while words might not always be necessary, our actions should consistently reflect our gratitude and accountability. When we show that we are thankful or truly sorry, it demonstrates our care and awareness of the world and the people around us.

There are times when people fail to grasp the gravity of a situation or understand another person’s feelings, leading them to overlook their mistakes. Conversely, we often receive countless apologies from those who aren’t at fault, while those who truly owe us an apology remain silent, especially when they are our loved ones who might feel exempt from such acknowledgments.

In reality, "sorry" is not just a word but an emotion—a profound way to convey that someone cares and recognizes when they’ve caused hurt. It’s a bridge that connects hearts, an acknowledgment of pain and a step towards healing.

The act of apologizing, when sincere, can mend rifts and strengthen relationships and friendships, proving that even the simplest words can hold immense power. It saves them from the destructive force of egos and teaches them how to care for the people around them. Apologizing shows vulnerability and strength, creating a foundation of trust and mutual respect, essential elements in any lasting bond.

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teawrites
teawrites

Written by teawrites

Hello! I'm Tripti, weaving my thoughts into words and experimenting to see if my thinking and writing resonate with people.

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